“I never give advice unless someone asks me for it. One thing I’ve learned, and possibly the only advice I have to give, is to not be that person giving out unsolicited advice based on your own personal experience. I’ve always had a lot of older people giving me advice because I’m young.“–Taylor Swift tells Billboard magazine that sometimes it’s best to put feelings into songs, not a lecture to your friend.
I feel for T in this situation–can you imagine how many people stroll up to her, spewing suggestions about her love life? Although I think when someone whispered “Stay away from John Mayer!” perhaps she should’ve listened just that one time, no?